They will also see Virgo as having positive parental qualities, but that doesn't mean they want to be treated like a child. Being overbearing with Aquarius is the wrong way to go. Aquarius grasps things easily and is skilled at understanding and solving conflict, but Virgo can have a tendency to harp on things and overexplain. In general, the two would do well to think before speaking and let their anger calm and fade rather than spur them to argument, as once the fight gets started, it can be hard to cool things down again.
Virgo would be wise to avoid the urge to overexplain, especially when it comes to potentially negative topics because Aquarius can get worn out by too much negativity. Besides, odds are Aquarius already understands the topic instinctively. Virgo comes to a better understanding through negativity and isn't as distraught by it, but Virgo is sensitive in its own right. It doesn't like to be changed or told what to do, how to think, how to feel, or who they should be sexually attracted to.
Going that far can set a Virgo off. Virgo can help Aquarius to be a more refined person while Aquarius can help Virgo settle down and be at peace—something the Virgo ultimately needs to achieve. Therefore, Aquarius brings Virgo the much-needed enlightenment it has been craving its whole life.
The two will fight over their differences, creating a pattern where they pull away and are then drawn back to each other. And perhaps forever. Aquarius needs to be patient with the Virgo, to try communicating what they are thinking, and understand that Virgo will listen. Virgos are very good listeners. Aquarius are forward thinkers, but they use the past to advance their future. Virgos do a lot of self-analysis of their past to perfect their lives. Both of these signs can hold heavy shame for not fulfilling their own goals and inner selves.
Aquarius wants to be a humanitarian; it does not like conflict. Virgo wants perfection and can beat itself up for falling short. Aquarius have more emotions to them than meets the eye; this is why they are the water bearer. They store up all their emotions until it overflows or the jar breaks. It is insulting to say an Aquarius is too cold or unemotional. They have a different way of displaying and working through their emotions, which is actually at the core of who they are, not to the side as many people wrongly try to explain about the Aquarius.
Aquarius also needs to be careful not to hurt Virgo by showing a lack of compassion something Virgo takes very seriously. In general, the two would do well to think before speaking. If they do find themselves upset, they would be wise to let their anger calm and fade rather than jump into an argument, as hurtful and rash things that can't be unsaid may have a disastrous effect on their relationship. If, however, these signs can find a way to understand and appreciate each other for their differences, they will form a brilliant pair.
Their great minds don't think alike, and that's what makes the combination so spectacular. Virgo: Look for strategies to better relay negative messages. Don't overload the Aquarius with negativity; this could push them away from you. Aquarius: Communicate what you're feeling even if it doesn't fully make sense, and don't hold back when it comes to pushing through your vulnerabilities. Keep your Virgo in the know. A Virgo craves a clean space, clean energy, clean aesthetics, and purity.
Aquarius doesn't put as much energy toward having a clean space or care as much in general about the concept of clean , though it will be a bonus to them to have a clean space because Aquarius is sensitive and easily affected by the external world. Aquariuses craves creativity over cleanliness, perfection, and the like, and they can get overwhelmed by too many materialistic commands.
It might be best for Virgo to take on more household work while Aquarius tends to other relationship matters, from spontaneity to romance.
Sexual Compatibility Aquarius and Aquarius
If possible, Virgo should manage good chunks of housework and have Aquarius pick up the slack in other areas. That being said, both partners should work on the home, not just one person. Don't let Aquarius be too lazy! Aquarius will feel well taken care of in a Virgo relationship; earth signs offer security.
Virgo will feel it can spread its wings more, leaving it free to open up its inner-weird and grow as a human. The two will need shared hobbies, particularly creative projects, and they should make an effort to try new things together and be spontaneous. I support this pair dating long term. What I like about this pairing is how much devotion Virgo can offer and how Aquarius can tend to it. Aquarius won't be judged harshly for their emotions in this pairing, but rather enjoyed for their charm. I think these two can really show a depth that is fulfilling. Some would say Aquarius with a Virgo is weird, but hold on.
Aquarius is weird, so what are you expecting from any relationship with that sign? As an Aquarius, I would know! Virgo is great at manifesting things into reality, they are great caretakers, and they love acts of service—that's how they show love. They want their Aquarius to be comfortable around them. Virgo may cut Aquarius loose if the match doesn't seem to fit their standards early on, but once in a committed relationship, Virgo will be very loving and loyal to their Aquarius. Aquarius is great at the art of conversation, exploring unturned stones, and being sweet.
They show love by spending time, physical affection, and compliments. Aquarius show their love by adding you deeper into their social circles; you'll meet a number of friends and family members. Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. I like an aquarius boy but we are not exactly friends.
He's trying to avoid me? Kind of.. Try having fun. Enjoy yourself first. Seem approachable. Find down to earth topics to bring up. Try to find mutual interests.
Andreas, I read your comment how scorps love to stalk Aquarius. If that isn't the truist statement! In my lifetime, I get most stabbed in the back by scorp. They can't stand the aquarius detachment. Scorp easily gets ruffled though they might not show it. Too much drama for my liking. Close friends of mine are virgo. I immensely enjoy my friendship with this sign. It's an odd couple that makes life colorful and interesting. Do share some of your thoughts. Thanks haha. I am a Virgo and my late husband for 23 years was an Aquarius.
We had a great life together we balance each other me balancing him more but it worked. Now I am with another Aquarius unexpectedly we became friends which I knew him before when we were kids lost touch with him reunited after my husband's death. We both found it odd to reunite as friends but now intimate. I found that this article helped me to understand him and myself more thank you.
I will be sharing this article with him so he can read it at his leisure in a quiet place no distractions so he can understand me. Yes Virgos and Aquarius are compatible and if anyone read this article their relationship can be much better. An intelligent conversation with a Virgo is the sexiest thing in the world But unfortunately they take things and tell lies about you when you make them mad, which is easy to do.
But gawd they sure are smart about social, political and Earthly knowledge. Very Judgmental. I am the Virgo and my Husband of 51 years is the Aquarian. Sadly Death was the only thing that parted us. Had a wonderful life together. Yes a Virgo and Aquarian do work and highly recommend the match. My Virgo and I who is Aquarius have been together for over three years now. It was hard at first and most of above I agree with. But once we stuck it out and overcame our hurdles and his walls came down and there were many at first.
We are truly soulmates and adore each other! The traits above mentioned are spot on, and if you find yourself in this match don't give up! At least for me We both feel so lucky to have each other! We have been together for 17 years married for 7 of those years. He's my best friend and visa versa. We talk to eachother about everything. Trust and communication is always there support as well Im not really sure how this video is true.
- More Games?
- How Aquarius and Virgo Balance Each Other!
- 6 Things BOUND To Happen When An Aquarius Dates An Aquarius | YourTango.
- More Compatibility for you.
She is my only close friend, and honestly we are so perfect for each other it makes my heart want to explode. She understands me deeper than anyone ever in my life. This is explains a lot and will help me for sure! We have been together for 4 years. Infatuated, inseparable, with an unbearable craving to be close every second of every day. After going through a ton of struggles in our relationship, we came extremely close to ending it several times, especially the most recent separation that lasted weeks!
Taurus April 20 – May 20
Looking back now, I know the absence made our hearts grow fonder. We worked through it all, which made us both good forgivers. Our hard times taught us a lot. Our differences make us whole, together we are one. Ones strengths are the others weaknesses. We complement each other beautifully. I am an Aquarian and my husband is a Virgo.
We've been married for over 4 years now. It is a struggle at times for sure, there is no denying that. But they balance each other out perfectly. Article is perfect. Everything is right on. In the end my aquatius is a bad alcoholic so me as a virgo i clean keep the house clean and go crazy on on the man for drinkimg. So on. I will as a virgo leave him bit as you say so loyal i cant.
Ty for your info. In goimg to try to communicate and save are relationship bc we do love each other and we do have a child. But in the end not sure if we r to compatible under stressful situations like addictions. The virgo will take over and walk away. Everything in this article is true to the Aquarius I was dating, but slightly different as she cleans a lot. But I wish I should've read this sooner Because I did the don't do's. I let my emotions get in the way, brought a lot of negativity and now she really went poof out of my life. I am a Aquarius f and i like a Virgo m , he seems to give me signs that he likes me but im not to sure.
I am 14 years old and he is 16 :. Everything that was said was true about me. I have recently re-connected with my first love from the 6th-9th grade. I think we can make it. I'm a Virgo woman, just married my Aquarius friend. I wish my aquarius guy would open up more. He bottles things up alot and it drives me crazy.
All your points were right. I don't know how you just stated all of my plans, ideas, analyses of my attraction about this aquarius woman I am secretly watching. Although, she knows I like her to be my wife. I am a virgo man who dont fear commitment, and she's an aquarius who of course loves her freedom. Like the air, she cant be contained, like the mountains, I cannot be moved. We can exist without the other but she gives life to my barren world. Actually, I'm just waiting, I have my eyes on her, I will definitely try every ways I can think of to get her to be with me.
Oh and, I love taking pictures of her! I just really don't want to lose her. Right now, I have started a thesis about my attraction towards her haha. It's because I really want to understand how come I got hooked I also gave her a notebook containing my plans in my love life, where her name is written.
We still communicate and I just hope we're getting closer. I will just let her flow freely, all I need is the air for me to breathe and erode the ways that I don't need to exist. Thanks for this article, out of the articles I have read about our compatibility, this one gave me hope. Thank you! Wish me luck! Ah, I hope you can find something that brings a buzz to you in your 40s. Don't worry, there is bound to be something to give you a spark of joy. My husband is an Aquarius and I am a Virgo woman.
We have been married for twenty years and we are are going strong. I am extremely practical and pragmatic, and he is spontaneous, and quirky. I love to stay home and organize, and he likes to go out with his friends and family. Hey our relationship works for us. We respect and admire our differences. I love how he is secure in being different and confident in his own skin , and he loves how I stand in my convictions to stay organize and focus in the home environment.
I have just finished reading the article and all the interesting comments. I am an aquarius woman who have been in a strong happy relationship with a virgo man for 3 yrs now. I read one of the comments sharing a story about her virgo bf who tried a lot of things just to get this aqua girl's feelings and attendtion and now she's totally crazily inlove with him and yes, that's TOTALLY US and soooo me.
I always want him also to be happy by my cheering attitude as always and im amazed how he opens up himself to me naturally without even the feeling of "trying hard so much" and I love it! I feel secured of him so much by his attitude of being so practical. He is so good on handling money! So true he is not into buying expensive ones but he is actually supporting his family and save good budget for our trips! I love anything natural, fast, easy, true, kind and just helping both sides of our weaknesses.
He is very attentive and clean and me is quite messy sometimes hahahaha i'm kinda shy to him sometimes of being just so carefree and crazy and messy but my love of art and giving colors to his life make him so much happy I feel that he never care about this little dirty flaw haha but when it comes to being si sweet i think i am more expressive and starts the sweetness and flirts between us but sometimes i have to manage it trying to be like organized, proper or ladylike and good at dresses that he also like.
It's also true that aqua woman easily put distances if she gets hurt by the virgo man at the same time my bf get teary eyes or feel frustrated if he mess up or hurt me sometimes by his judgement. He does not like me to feel hurt by him. He wants perfection and always want concrete plans and gets disappointed if i am already too spontaneous and unorganized but at the end of the day he make it a point that i am feel loved and accepted by him inspite of it, he says it to me directly and hugs me after. So amazingly true in this article!
Oh and by the way, we were friends for a decade already since high school. That makes sense of "being me" of not easily wanting to attach with someone even he expressed that time that he like me. It took years until we met again and became a couple. Now we will be celebrating 3rd anniversary and both our hearts are so excited for our future! We are praying and hoping for the best and of course feeling so sure how we want to end up marrying and staying together til we get old! Love lots to this best article! So true and sweet! How exactly should i peak an Aquarius's interest in me?
He is a male Aquarius and i am a female Virgo if that helps at all. Aquarian woman here dating a Virgo. Deep into astrology, gave this a shot anyway in Venus retrograde. I have found this Virgo man communicated effectively with me. I feel completely accepted in all my weird ways. I'm messy he is OCD. This actually helps me to stay organized and I need that. The freedom i feel to be myself without judgement has been phenomenal. I like the space we both allow one another. He loves my positivity that I bring and I love the security he brings.
I do not feel any lack of emotion. I am expressive and so is he. The aries I dated before was critical and I always felt I was walking on eggshells. The Leo he dated before was jealous to the extreme. Maybe those relationships are what drove us to both strive to be better in this relationship. Of all my relationships this one has been the easiest. An Aquarius believes in treating everyone equally, Hanie. That even goes for the people they love most of all. Try not to take it personally, because it is something they cannot change.
Tami Thomas, can you please share how to win his heart after a fight? I know he loves me, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't really show it much..
I want him to love and miss me more.. I am married to Aquarius and I am a virgo. Im hoping our 23 yr. Relationship lasts forever , communication is the key!!!! This is the first reading ever where the Aquarius and Virgo can last. You also said that the Aquarius like to start her relationships up as friends - I kinda laughed for my Virgo was after me for like 1 year before i was ready to be with him.
He will always say it was so hard but so good to see for every thing he did for getting me he could just see I got more and more crazy about him. It truly makes me happy that this pairing is one of them that lastest.
I know I will be with him for the rest of my life he learns me so much and vice versa. Oh, Scorpios love to stalk Aquarius. That's like the ultimate quest. However, this is just a quick and easy way to compare, and it's going to have lots of exceptions on this broad level. That's because people are more than just their sun sign. There are other planets which also affect someone's personality. This creates billions of permutations making each Aquarius slightly different. Generalizing too far based just on sun signs can therefore be misleading. To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet positions from their date of birth and then compare them to your own.
This unlocks the real power of astrology and gives much more useful and specific information, such as how they view you, how to turn them on, how to avoid arguments with them etc. If you would like to explore this further please see the astrology compatibility readings page. Here you can share experiences and opinions on dating, marriage and affairs, whether you're an Aquarius or have experience with one. You'll find that some of these forums are generally positive in tone, and some are generally negative.
That doesn't guarantee that will be your experience, however you are very likely to recognize some common patterns which can be fascinating. Some relationship combinations are much more common than others. Some sun signs are also much more chatty than others. Some are more likely to compliment or complain! Each forum therefore tends to have a fairly consistent trend to the comments.
Please keep in mind though that people are much more than just their sun sign. Beyond a point Aquarius compatibility varies due to the individuals other planet positions when they were born.
- Watch Next;
- astrological alignment october 14 2019.
- november 26 horoscope libra or libra?
- Aquarius Compatibility - Zodiac Sign Astrology;
- Aquarius Summary?
- What Zodiac Signs Are Compatible With Aquarius? Here Are 5 Signs The Water Bearer Vibes With.
- gemini december 18 2019 weekly horoscope!
You need a real astrology reading to understand a real relationship. How to use astrology to explore your unique relationship. Find out what astrology has to say about your unique partner and relationship beyond just sun signs. By understanding someone and how they view things it's easy to make yourself more attractive to them. Explore hidden factors such as physical attraction so you can see the whole picture of your relationship.
Personal relationship advice based on your natal and composite charts. Astrology can let you learn more about someone you recently met. It's the most powerful tool I've found to predict the future of a relationship. Avoid arguments before they start and turn your differences into strengths. It's never too late to begin again. For the first time in years you feel alive.